OK, about this one: many straight men don’t fantasize about it. Exhibitionistic fantasies also start in the childhood and live on into adulthood. What if someone, even straighter than yourself, decides you’re making a move on him!? Yet, heterosexuals often daydream of other men eying their one-eyed snake while in public restrooms. Checking other men’s penises is a belittling act, making straight men look gayish. When emptying his bladder of the five beers he’s just had in a bar’s restroom, a straight man pretends not to be interested in what’s going on in the urinal next to him. As for straight guys who fantasize about being ass-raped, it can be expected they won’t feel much remorse if this fantasy eventually comes true because… “Well, Mommy, I didn’t want to, but he made me do it!” “ I gladly let other men stare at my bulge” The erotic fantasy of being forced by another man to have sex with him can also point to a guy’s desire to have sex without responsibility, without guilt. Because in real world, men are seen as the stronger sex and the ones who are more capable of violence and overpowering the objects of their desires, it is very likely that in a fantasy world they’d dream of taking the role of the victim, of being sexually subdued. “I am coerced to suck a strange guy”Ĭoercion and sexual arousal sometimes go hand in hand, pretty much like Hansel and Gretel. That’s why the locker room triggers a particularly enticing mood for some men. When you were still a sexually inexperienced young teen, fantasizing about having sex with a fellow student of your preference was a normal way to explore taboos. Is there anything more masculine than a bunch of guys hunting a wild boar in the forest, or… taking a shower together after a rough field game they’ve just won! Actually, this gay fantasy has its roots in the stereotypical high-school gym sex fantasy. “A guy from my soccer team sucked my dick in the locker room” Girls may expect a partner with such sex fantasy might turn to men FOR REAL. These men are quite prone to infidelity, they often look for something fresh to add to their sex routine. Can it get any gayer than dreaming of a male physician who unexpectedly decides to examine your private parts!? Straight guys who frequently have this gay fantasy are role-playing aficionados. Playing doctor is another very common sexual fantasy.
If she finds out he wants her to watch while he is getting hard in the passionate arms of a male sex partner, he’ll most probably use the same old, classic-yet-lame excuse, “Oh, hon, maybe it’ll bring the two of us closer together…” “My doctor sticks two fingers into my butthole…and not to check my prostate” This type of fantasy pairs nicely with the threesome fantasy, only, in this particular case, straight guys would rather admit they’ve slept with a Grizzly bear than having fantasies about doing it with another man in the presence of their GF. The voyeuristic sex fantasies are very popular among both men and women. “I want my girlfriend to watch me do it with a dude” So, let us peep through the hole, and see what gay fantasies the so-called straight-identifying men have. Some sexologists and psychologists claim that one-hundred-percent straight males are like flying pink elephants. Adopting straight sexuality works on many levels, especially if a sexually fluid guy needs a viable strategy to survive in a homophobic environment. As a rule, people like to fool themselves that these two things match up, but the truth is that in many cases they don’t. That’s definitely an intriguing question to ask and let me start answering it by saying that there is a huge difference between one’s sexual identity and one’s sexual behavior.